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October 6th, 2008
 
EXCERPTS FROM ON MY OWN: A RESOURCE GUIDE FOR LIVING INDEPENDENTLY

Chapter 1 - Living Independently... What's It All about?

Living independently... what's it all about? It's about living on your own, being responsible for yourself, controlling your own life and making your own decisions – and taking risks! It can be challenging at times, but it can also be very rewarding. Think about why you feel you should live independently. Is it because people think you should, or because you want to? Ask yourself why you want to live on your own.

Chapter 2 - Moving In

Pack breakable items to ensure they remain secure during the move. Don't pack things in newspapers - the black ink may get all over your belongings, like dishes, and then you will have to wash them again. Use paper towel - when you unpack, you can use them for cleaning in your new place.

Chapter 3 - Safety in the Home

Burns. Place burns (including sunburns) immediately under cool water to relieve pain and swelling. If cool water is not available, use anything cold, such as a cold juice bottle that can be rolled over the skin. Don't put anything else on a burn unless you know the burn is minor. Only put something that is cold and wet (like a damp tea towel) on the burn until a doctor looks at it. Do not breathe on, cough over or touch the burned area. If the burn is minor, wipe with aloe vera plant juice. Dress with a burn ointment and sterile gauze. Never break blisters.

Chapter 4 - Looking after Yourself

When you're on your own, it's natural to be lonely at times. You lived with your family or other people for many years, and you may need time to get used to being alone. There are many ways to cope.

Chapter 5 -Housekeeping

Drying laundry. If you do not have access to a clothes dryer or do not wish to use one, buy a folding dryer rack from a department or hardware store. It folds up easily when not in use. If hanging clothes up to dry, avoid using metal hangers, which can leave rust stains.

Chapter 6 - What's Cooking!?!

Read labels. Try to get in the habit of reading the ingredient lists on products before you buy them. Try not to buy products that are loaded with sugars (glucose, fructose, sucrose, etc.). Also watch for monosodium glutamate (MSG), sulphates, and artificial colours and flavours, which bother some people. Ingredients are listed on the label in the order of those contained in highest amounts.

Chapter 7 - Getting along with Others.

Learn to read body language. It can help you understand others and know how they are feeling. Also be aware of what your own body language says to others. Remember that body language can give clues, but it's not always an accurate indicator of how someone is feeling.

Chapter 8 - Social Occasions

Weddings. Dress formally, unless otherwise specified on the invitation. But do not try and outdo the bride or groom. White is reserved for the bride. Men should wear a tie.

Chapter 9 - Managing Time, Goals and Stress

"Hard work, perseverance and belief in myself. At times, I've failed, but I've learned to keep trying. You can't grow or succeed unless you risk failure. It hurts, but it does pass." – Ing Wong

Chapter 10 - Choosing Your Path

Research your options. Before you reject a possible career because you think you can't do the job, find out more about your options. Are there some assistive devices or technologies that would enable you to succeed at the job?



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